Arshamae’s Journey: Resilience, Challenges, and Hope from Calamba, Misamis Occidental, Philippines, to South Korea

Arshamae’s life story is one of incredible resilience, overcoming hardships, and finding hope in the most challenging circumstances. As a Filipino living in South Korea, her experiences highlight the struggles and triumphs many immigrants face. This article delves into her journey, from her early life in the Philippines to her survival and transformation in South Korea.


  • Filipino immigrants in South Korea
  • Resilience stories
  • Immigrant challenges in Korea
  • Inspirational life stories
  • Overcoming hardships

The Early Life of Arshamae

A Childhood Rooted in Resilience

She  was born in Calamba, Misamis Occidental, as the youngest of three children. When her parents separated, she was just three months old. Her paternal grandparents stepped in to raise her, providing love and stability in a challenging environment.

Her grandmother, a hardworking farmer, was her pillar of strength. Her childhood was marked by both love and fear. She often cried when left alone, fearing for her grandmother’s safety in the dangerous kaingin fields. Despite this, her days were filled with moments of joy as they gathered eggs, fruits, and vegetables together.

Emerging Talents in School

Her love for performing became evident during her school years. She excelled in dancing, singing, and sports, and by sixth grade, she was choreographing for her cousins’ contests. These experiences gave her confidence, even as financial struggles loomed ahead.

 Challenges in Education and Family Struggles

The Road to College

Her college journey was anything but smooth. After starting a Bachelor of Science in Education program, she shifted to Tourism due to financial difficulties. Her father’s bankruptcy left her unable to pay fees, and her mother refused to assist, citing personal grievances.

A Heartbreaking Loss

During her third year of college, tragedy struck when her beloved grandmother passed away. Her final words encouraged Arshamae to persevere, avoid early motherhood, and finish her studies. Despite the pain, these words became a guiding light.

 Arshamae’s Journey to South Korea

Unintended Beginnings

Her path to South Korea began at a seminar where she unknowingly signed a marriage contract. Believing she was embarking on a short mission, she arrived in Korea on March 19, 2000. Upon arrival, her belongings were confiscated, and she was pressured to live with her husband’s family.

Enduring Hardship

Life in Korea was challenging. Her husband’s  substance abuse made her feel trapped. At her lowest point, she contemplated suicide but found renewed strength through dreams of her grandparents. Their memory became a source of courage.

 Motherhood and Survival in South Korea

The Love for Her Child

Her  life took a new direction when she became a mother. Her son gave her a reason to fight against all odds. Despite her husband’s neglect, she worked tirelessly to provide for her child.

Her dedication extended to tutoring, where she would bring her son along to ensure his safety. This unwavering love and determination became the foundation of her survival in South Korea.

 A Story of Resilience and Hope

Her journey, from a challenging childhood in the Philippines to her life in South Korea, is a testament to the strength of the human spirit. Her resilience, love for her son, and determination to overcome life’s obstacles serve as an inspiration to many.



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